Suck at sucking?

Question:
I just started seeing this guy and he doesn't seem too enthused with my oral sex techniques. What can I do to wow him?

Answer:
Oral sex, blow job, BJ, giving head, sucking D... whatever you call it there are skills to fabulous fellatio.
First things first let's talk about attitude. If you go down thinking that it is disgusting they are going to be able to tell. Enjoy it! Enjoy the fact that you are giving them pleasure.

Here are a few tips and pointers to help you out:

No biting: Just remember to slide your lips over your teeth for smooth gliding over the penis. If someone wants a nibble they'll tell you.

Mix it up: Try licking, sucking, stroking, kissing...mix it up. Don't be boring and just bob your head up and down. Try licking around the head of the penis or the frenulum (this is located on the underside of the penis by the head and is very sensitive). Try eye contact every once in a while and smile let them know that you are enjoying yourself. Feel free to moan every once in awhile it can make for some nice vibration. Let your partner know how turned on you are. Don't neglect the rest of the body the stomach, thighs and butt can feel nice too.

Deep throat: Just because porn stars do something doesn't mean that you have to. My recommendation is to always keep a hand at the base of the penis so that you don't take the penis too deep or if he gets excited and thrusts or pulls out the "1000 pound hand" you won't gag. Use your hand as a stopper.

To swallow or not to swallow: If you aren't crazy about cum don't worry you aren't going to hurt anyone's feelings. This is totally up to you. Let them know if you like swallow or not. Don't wait till you have a mouth full to have this conversation.

Multi-task: One of the best ways give a blow job is to use your hands and mouth. Place a hand at the base of the penis stroke the shaft while using your mouth. Some guys like their testicles played with some like their perineum (taint) stroked or anal play... but this brings me to the "C" word again communication.

Communicate: Don't just assume that all men are created equal or all men like the same thing. Don't just start playing with their taint and assume they like it. Communicate ask them if they like what you are doing, if they want more. If they can't speak because they are in ecstasy then take that as a yes.

Side note: If your partner is wearing a strap on a dildo treat it like it is an extension of their body and enjoy.

As always remember sex is fun and enjoy yourself.

The Art of Blow Job