There are times when my boyfriend and I are having sex and upon thrusting into me his penis hits something inside of me that is so painful it makes me jump 10 feet. It does not happen all of the time but when it does it is during the deep thrusting positions you mentioned in your earlier column. My boyfriend is not a "large" man but would be considered average by most standards, including my own. This has happened with previous lovers as well. Can you explain to me why this is happening and what it is that is being hit causing this pain/discomfort?
Answer:
There are many reasons for pain during sex: infection, vaginal tightness, etc... but it sounds like you may have a "tipped uterus." I am not a medical doctor and in no way diagnosing you, but this is just what it sounds like to me.
So what is a tipped uterus? No, it is not a ride at the carnival!
The uterus, also called the womb is pear shaped and where a baby grows when a woman is pregnant. The uterus is usually straight up and down but some women have a tilted uterus, where it is not straight up and down. Tilted uterus is also sometimes called retroverted uterus or tipped uterus.
Some women don't experience any symptoms but some can experience pain during sex (dyspareunia) and/or pain during menstruation (dysmenorrhea). Some women may also experience back pain during penetration.
I would however recommend some different positions that aren't deep thrusting. Here is another chance to get creative.
Cowgirl's Helper: Squat on top raising and lowering yourself with your thighs. This way you have control the depth of penetration. Have her squat on top, raising and lowering herself with her thighs. Cowgirl hat and boots are optional.
Reverse Missionary (woman on top): Also, referred to as reverse cowgirl. Rest on your knees and sit on top raising and lowering yourself. Again you will have control of the depth of penetration.
Woman on top leaning back: From this position you can lean all the way back until your back is resting on his legs. This will control the depth as well as give him access to your clitoris. You can also reverse this and face away from him and then lean back till your back rests on his chest this will give access to play with your boobs as well as clitoris.
Remember any position that you are in if you pull your legs closer and tighter together this will also help you control the depth of penetration. Also, it might be fun to take control and be on top you may just like it!
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