Tuesday, December 1, 2009

No orgasm with penetration? Become an explorer!

Question:
Do all women can experience orgasm from penetration?

Answer:
In a one word answer...No. But please let me elaborate for you.
Let me throw a few statistics out at you...
10-20% of women never have any type of orgasm
60% of women no coital orgasm (orgasm from penetration)

If you aren't orgasming during penetration you are completely normal, in fact you are more likely to not have an orgasm during penetration. So if 60% of women aren't having orgasms from penetration then why does everyone think that is the way it is supposed to be? It's unrealistic ideals and expectations which are the big problem here. We are not porn stars, we don't get paid to have an orgasm anytime we are touched.

I believe that a lot has to do with education. Women need to know more about their bodies and what feels good to them, not what you think is supposed to feel good. Most women require direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Here is where I get on my soap box and tell you to MASTURBATE, MASTURBATE, MASTURBATE!!!! Explore your own body! How can you expect someone else to do a good job if you don't know what gets the job done?

If you really want to orgasm with penetration try clitoral stimulation with penetration. Or you can try oral sex and stop right before you are about to orgasm and have you partner penetrate you. This can trigger an orgasm. Some sexual positions, like women being on top can also provide more direct clitoral stimulation. Again, be an explorer try new things and find out what works best for you... everyone's path to orgasm is a little bit different so try some uncharted waters.

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